Date night

Roger has been busy with work all week so I decided to make him a nice dinner and watch Sweeny Todd. Roger borrowed Sweeny Todd from one of his friends yesterday and didn't have time to watch it last night. I spent 4 hours trying to make pasta sauce. It was really good. We had fettuccine with tomato sauce and cheesy bread. It was really good. I don't think Roger get Sweeny Todd though. It would help if he was paying attention though. He is spending out date night on the computer. Oh well boys will be boys. I love the movie though. I promised I wouldn't sing along if we watched it but I might have to break the promise though. A Little Priest is coming up and I don't know if I can resist it is one of my favorite songs. Hopefully Roger stops monkeying on his computer soon so I can finish the date well ;)

*Facepalm* Well there goes $50!

I got a call from my grandma that she didn't actually check the date before telling me that the 18th is open. Well surprise! its not. So I am moving the date to the 19th (Sunday) and having to reprint my invites with the correct date on it. I am trying not to upset but I really wanted it on a Saturday night. Oh well I will live. Its only $50 but still I can deal with it.

My Invites!

I have to get going on the invitations since I pushed the wedding up so much. Here is what I came up with on VistaPrint.com They fit well with the theme and are cheap, which where my two main criteria.

Whooping Cough and Santa Clause

I know you are all (yes, all 4 followers) wondering what I am smoking right now. How on earth does on get from whooping cough to St. Nick? Well apart from being ADHD there is a reason.

You all know about my sister coming to my elopement right? Well she has whooping cough and cannot come. Sis offered to pay for mom or dad to come out instead but honestly they aren't even close to healthy enough to travel. I was crying today because I wanted someone there. I mean its a wedding for Pete's sake!

So I was talking to my mom and sister and I decided that I wanted to just fly out to Missouri to have the wedding. It will be just the immediate family but it will be nice. I get to have all the people I love there as I declare my devotion to the man that God has given me as my husband. It may not be fancy (no chair covers even) but it has all the things that really matter.

I obviously couldn't pull off a wedding in 3 weeks (plus giving your guests less than a month's notice is considered rude) so I asked Roger when would be good for him. (After he agreed to all of this of course) and he said December would be best since he has to get time off work. I then called my sister/ Maid of Honor and asked when her winter break starts. It is the 18 so that is when the wedding will be.

As for the Santa Clause part? Well if you are bad at math the 18th is one week before Christmas. To my family Christmas is a holiday celebrated from the week after Thanksgiving to New Years Eve. As soon as my sister learned the date she started making plans to have a Christmas tree there and the whole nine yards. Roger said she can do that if she dresses up as Santa. She seriously considered it. Only one of my family members would seriously consider wearing a fake beard and Santa suit to a wedding. I just hope that my sister doesn't talk to my mom before I get ahold of her tomorrow. If my mom and sister get together on this Christmas theme I will have a gingerbread house as a wedding cake and our first dance will be Frosty the Snowman.

I am sure those from Wedding Wire reading this are screaming "Its your wedding just tell them no!" at your computer screens right now. You don't know my mom. Our tree has more decorations than the one in Madison Square Gardens. She has not one Christmas village but 2.

Christmas is the time that no matter how bad things in life is Mom just puts on Its a Wonderful Life and signs carols until she is blue in the face. I admire that about her. There where years when we where broke. There where years that my father was near death. It didn't matter. Christmas was always a time to celebrate whatever we did have. Hmm, I guess that is kinda what I am doing with my wedding too. There will still be no Santa.

My Venue

I went to look at my venue this weekend. It is the Littleton Memorial Rose Garden. It is beautiful. There is a little Gazebo and rows and rows of roses. I love it. I cannot wait until Roger gets paid and I can give my officiant the down payment. I cannot believe I have less than a month less until I am Tara Kline!

 

Wedding Update

I am going back to my idea for claret, black and white for my wedding colors. I think it looks classic. I liked the fall theme but there where just too many colors. I think the claret, white and black is romantic. I have a year to figure it all out though.

As for the officiant for the elopement, I haven't heard anything. Its really annoying. I even talked to some more. I might just book the one in Loveland. That's the one that is $225 and is over an hour away. I just want to get married.

The Last One

I told you about my search for officiants and if the officiant that I emailed today doesn't respond, I officially give up on finding an officiant. I refuse to spend over $300 and drive 2 hours to have someone spend 12 minutes officiating our wedding. I am not being sarcastic that is what the going rate/time for elopements in Colorado. I found a few officiants closer (one in Littleton even) but they don't have chapels. I am not paying $100 and then still not having a location to get married at. Its asinine. There is one officiant that is right down the street and has a location for $149. I am putting all my eggs in this basket as of now.

I almost want to just get the marriage license and solemnize it myself. Yes I can do that. Since 1993 Colorado has allowed couples to sign the marriage license themselves instead of having a ceremony. It can be done immediately after getting the license and turn it in right then and there and be married in less than a minute.
It is horribly unromantic and I would never want to get married like this but I am having my wedding in a year. I need to be on Roger's insurance and it doesn't really matter if its romantic or not does it? I will have my big white wedding and get to wear my pretty dress and all of those things I have dreamed of since I was 5. I do wish I could have that now but I want to married  more than I want those unimportant niceties.

I give them until Tuesday. Two business days should be plenty of time to read my email and respond if they have any dates open. Though by the lack of responses from some officiants two weeks isn't enough time.